Is this the Beauty in Life?

Received an email about (again I feel like HE is telling me something) The Spirit of An Eagle. It is the story about what you should do when changes in life taking place. It says "If you focus on results, you will never change. If you focus on change, you will get results"... and those in the brackets are what I feel.

Many times, in order to survive we have to start a change process. We sometimes need to get rid of old memories, habits and other past traditions. Only freed from past burdens, can we take advantage of the present.

Our lives are not determined by:
1) What happens to us (especially those which are out of our control) but by how we react to what happens (no wonder I cried whenever I am mad with somebody's foolish attitude).

2) What life brings to us (so forget about complaining on what you don't have), but by the attitude we bring to life (appreciate and value what you are having).

A positive attitude causes a chain in reaction of positive thoughts, events, and outcomes.

It is a catalyst, a spark that creates extraordinary results. So why not focus on changing ourselves first instead of feeling bad when there are changes taking place.

But... how many people knows the pain inside us when all these happens.